SEX THERAPY IS FOR EVERYONEThere is no one typical sex therapy client. Sex is about the body and mind, our histories, and our relationship to ourselves. Depending on your concern, therapy will likely include a combination of education, unpacking the elements at play during session, and exercises to do at home. If you are experiencing challenges or have hopes to impact your relationship to yourself, your body, or to those of others, sex therapy can help.
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There are no "typical" issues, but there are some things that we see frequently in some form. Here is a list of some things our therapists work with commonly. Please keep in mind that even if your issue isn't listed here, our therapists have likely seen it before and are ready to help.
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DIVERSE IDENTITIES & RELATIONSHIP STYLES
Gender & Sexual Minorities lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, pansexual, asexual, demisexual, queer and intersex identities Polyamory committed, non-monogamous intimate relationships Swinging recreational, non-monogamous sexual relationships Kink & BDSM adult role-play between two or more individuals Cross-Dressing enjoyment from wearing clothing commonly associated with the opposite gender Fetishes sexual arousal based around non-sexual objects, situations, or body parts |
FOR PARTNERS
Desire Discrepancy sex drive differences between a couple Premarital Counseling sex, intimacy, and communication Stages of Life Counseling impact of life cycle changes (such as having children, menopause, aging or disabilities) on the sexual relationship FAMILY SUPPORT Sex Education We can help parents talk to children of all ages appropriately and accurately about sex, and help them answer questions related to human sexuality. Topics Include: Family Planning STD’s Healthy Relationships Sexual Identity Internet Use |
SEXUAL BEHAVIORS
Anorgasmia inability or loss of ability to achieve orgasm Hypoactive Desire lack or absence of sexual desire Dyspareunia discomfort or pain with intercourse Vaginismus involuntary tightening of the vagina during attempted intercourse Erectile Dysfunction (ED) inability to achieve or sustain an erection suitable for sexual intercourse Premature Ejaculation ejaculating sooner than desired Delayed Ejaculation the inability to ejaculate or persistent difficulty in achieving orgasm Loss of Sex Drive decreased interest in sex |
Sex & Aging, Disabilities or Illness
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Contrary to what we see in movies and other media, good sex is not just for the young. People of all ages and abilities have a right to satisfying sex, and we're here to help you achieve your goals, whatever your ability. Our therapists can help you work to connect mentally and physically with your partner in a safe and consensual way. |
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Other Concerns
Extra-Marital AffairsDiscovering infidelity can be devastating, and is often followed by intense emotions and difficult decisions. Whether the infidelity was physical or emotional, our therapists can assist in the process of getting you and your spouse to a place of trust, connection and intimacy while supporting the ultimate outcome you choose.
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Sexual Trauma Sexual trauma occurs when people involved in sexual events cannot or do not give their consent, feel scared or helpless, or are injured or threatened. It can happen once or be a series of events that happen over time. Even if the event or events weren't violent, it can still be traumatic and have lasting effects on the person who experienced it and their relationships.
If you have experienced sexual trauma at any time in your life, working with a skilled, trauma-informed therapist can be a key step forward in the healing process. |
Sex/Porn AddictionsSexual addiction is one of the terms used to describe sexual activity that feels "out of control." Having a high sex drive doesn't make you a sex "addict." Neither does watching porn, having multiple partners or participating in cyber-sex. Problems develop when sexual activity occurs in a way that feels uncontrollable or results in harm to you and/or your relationships.
Our therapists can assist you in assessing your behaviors and offer guidance for you and your relationships in relation to sexual behaviors that may be problematic. |